Mighty Mind

If you have an ‘internal locus of control’, then that means that you recognize just how responsible you are for the quality of your life and your accomplishments. Many people have a tendency to blame others, to blame circumstances, or to make excuses when things don’t go their way. Why aren’t you happy? It’s because you had a hard childhood! Why aren’t you rich? It’s because you weren’t born with a silver spoon in your mouth, or because you lost your job due to lay-offs.

Making excuses is easy but it doesn’t get anywhere. The reality is that people have dug themselves out of holes much deeper than the one you’re in right now – I don’t care who you are – and they have come out richer, happier and stronger.